Whats Important

There are many things in life that I have learned. One, to have three close friends. Two, be strong mentally and physically. And finally, to be strong enough to let the worse pass through you. Life has always found a way to make the worse of anything sting you right in the heart and tear your mental bridge down. How this came to be is beyond my comprehension but I do know that it is possible to overcome these tough breaks. The three close friends are there for a reason. The first friend is your best friend. They are the ones who you can always go to and talk to about anything and you can always count on them to be there for you. Hence, your next best alternative friend. The second friend is the one who always wants to party and who you can always count on if you need to be cheered up. This person has no recollections of pain and who can see the bright side of every situation and who can turn a rainy day into the most beautiful of days. Finally the third friend. This is who I call the one. The one is who you don’t want to ever lose as a friend. This person can be counted on for both the fun part of a relationship and the soft side of a relationship. They are there no matter what happens and they make the day turn brighter. This friend eventually ends up being your partner and you each are having more fun then both the other friends put together. The whole rest of the world is turned off during the times that you both spend together and you both could not possibly be any happier. But sometimes the worse comes into play and the one runs away. Reason is thrown out the window and sorrow is thrown right back in. You start to feel sorry for yourself and it affects the other two friends. You then lean on friend number one for that emotional support and then they feel like they are stuck in the middle of a situation that they do not want to be in and there is nothing that they can do about it because they actually do indeed care about you and how you are feeling so they are there. Friend number two is too busy in their party world that they completely throw your feelings out the window. You wish that number three was there but you get so completely caught up in your own problems that you have forgotten about one of the most important people in your life. This person has already left you because you let it happen. You let the worse come out and defeat you. You did not count on the main friend and so you lost everything that was important to you. You may not realize it because the worse is winning at this point but you do know down deep inside that you lost it and if it was meant to be that the best would make it happen. Life has already brought you down that you are afraid to look back and find that friend number three. The worse isn’t what made you lose this friend. It was your blindness of what was good in your life that made you lose your best friend. There is very little that you can do to get this person back into your life but you still know that there is a chance to change things and to do the right thing and try to fix the situation that has caused so much hurt and pain already. You don’t know how to do it now but if you really wanted to succeed you could make it work. You can show that the worse of everything is just a faze that will pass if you let it. You can defeat it. You can win the day. You can make you and your friend the same or even better than before. The moral of this story is to never push anything away no matter how bad the situation is. Do not kick your peers out of your problems. It is not healthy for you or for the friends that are involved. The situation just worsens if you keep situations that seem unbearable closed away. Because before you know it, you may have lost everything.
-By Adam Miller